Useful materials may include an existing child support or custody order, recent pay information, tax returns, child-care invoices, health-insurance information, payment records, and a proposed agreement or court filing. A short timeline of changes can also help focus the first conversation.
When a parenting schedule affects the question, bring the schedule that reflects the children's actual routine, including school nights, holidays, transportation, and regular child-care arrangements. Those details can matter as much as the financial paperwork.
Please do not send confidential financial records, court papers, or sensitive personal information through an initial website message. A brief description and reliable contact information are enough to begin a private conversation with the office.